4 characteristics of people who ruin your life
If you live your life, you will nod your head at the word unchilgisam. If you really have 70% luck in life, where does that luck come from? Perhaps its roots are in people. There is good luck and bad luck. I want to learn how to bring good luck and share it with many people, but unfortunately I haven’t reached that level (?). However, I was able to realize little by little how to prevent bad luck as I went through a lot of hardships. After all, most of the hard work has occurred in relationships, and it seems that avoiding only these people can prevent more bad luck than you think.
who wants to make me money
Nothing is free in this world. We humans fight over money, even among family members. However, in reality, extreme luck may occur and someone who wants to make me rich may come. The way to tell if it’s a scam or real is to see if the person is already rich or if they really don’t care about money and are intrinsically motivated by wanting to make someone better. If you check it like that, in the end, they are all people who come to stick a straw in my marrow. Let’s absolutely avoid
A person whose words and actions are different
We first build relationships through conversation. However, if your words and actions are different, you will eventually be hit in the back of the head. Especially when we’re disappointed in a friend is when I’m having a hard time. When we drink soju, we talk like blood brothers, but there aren’t many friends who help us when things get tough. (On the contrary, when something good happens to me, there are surprisingly many people who pretend to be happy in front of me, but feel stomachache behind the scenes.)
A person who believes in his narrow experience as the truth
Most of the crosses fall into this category. Speaking a little more calmly here, you should not blindly accept the advice of someone close to you. This is especially true of family advice. Of course, the family will give advice with a sincere and caring heart, but the first condition for advice is objectification of the situation. One of the hallmarks of good advice is how unbiased we are and seeing if we have more alternatives. Let’s take care of those who believe that only they are right.
negative person in everything
There is always one of these people around. especially at work. First of all, they live with negative words in their mouths and believe that the cause of all problems is in the world, not themselves. If these people are around, positive people cannot gather. Even if you persuade people who are negative in everything, most of the cases do not work. Best to just avoid it. However, there are cases where such a person is unavoidable because they are family members or co-workers and bosses. In this case, you should show it through actions (results), not through words. It’s less tiring and if you’re lucky, it might have a good effect on that person.
As I write this, I reflect on whether I am not such a person. As a matter of course, as I reflect deeply, I also quickly reflect on whether I am talking about my narrow-minded experience as if it were everything in the world. In the end, this article also came from my narrow-minded thoughts, so I think it would be good for those who read it to read it with a critical perspective. Still, if I filter based on these 4 characteristics, I think I won’t be able to filter out people who ruin my life. At the same time, it would be better if you think about whether you are not like this.