people you must meet in life

It is life to say that it is a fate even if you just brush your collar. Encounters have a huge impact on our lives. Some fateful encounters change the direction of our lives completely. It’s an insignificant life, but looking back at the footsteps of my life, there was a person at a decisive moment. Even in difficult moments and happy moments, someone was always by my side. It’s not a great life at all, but I’m living the moment very satisfied. I am fully immersed in my life so that I do not have to compare myself with anyone else. Of course, my efforts are a big part of the secret to living a life full of happiness like this, but it is no exaggeration to say that the biggest driving force is the influence of the people I met. What kind of person was I lucky enough to have such a positive influence on?

Someone who inspires you

I have always been a lump of inferiority complex. I always felt inferior to people who were better at something than me and who had a lot. I was curious at the same time. How did those people rise to that position and develop such abilities? As his inferiority complex deepened, so did his curiosity about the secret. From a certain moment, my curiosity overcame my inferiority complex, and I always asked questions without hesitation when there was someone who was superior to me. “What’s the secret? What should I do?” It wasn’t always possible to get the right answer. However, by asking questions and listening to the answers of those who pioneered a field I had never been to, I came to understand the world little by little.

First of all, what I realized clearly was that each had their own reasons for success, but most of them worked hard. However, the degree of effort was overwhelming in both quantity and quality. I naturally began to realize that the efforts I had made were far from lacking in every way. I was able to grow more quickly and properly by breaking the mold of my thinking. As the process lasted for more than 10 years, I became a completely different person that I had never imagined myself to be. That’s how I directly or indirectly met people who could get inspiration for a long time and was able to develop in a good direction through steady practice.

Someone who can create synergy

Synergy is a really nice word and one that people use often, but few people have ever experienced it. When synergies are experienced, the focus is on cooperation rather than competition. So, no matter who does well, rather than feeling sick to my stomach, I think about what kind of point of contact we can make and how we can do well together. Why do we not experience good relationships so easily? This is because there are not many people who can create synergy. Then, what conditions must be satisfied to create synergy? In order for people to meet and create synergy, they must have perfect skills beyond the critical point in their own area. To put it simply, synergy is an orchestra performance. Each person must be good at playing an instrument to create a magnificent ensemble. If even one person makes a mistake, synergy will not occur and the efforts of others can be ruined. If you want to go beyond your ability in life, you must meet someone who can create synergy. However, one thing to keep in mind once again is that when organizing an organic construct to create synergy, you must be able to fully digest one part of it. Synergy occurs only when you can serve one person. Let’s not forget this.

Someone who wants to give everything

Personally, I think love is the highest emotional activity that humans can do. Being loved by someone is such a happy thing. But I’m sure that loving someone is a happier thing. At first glance, I think I would be happier if I received love, but I cannot decide the timing of the joy that comes from receiving love. If someone doesn’t love me, my heart won’t be filled. But loving someone can be as much as you want, whenever you want. When you get used to the joy of giving, you can live a much more proactive life. Let’s imagine that you meet someone who wants to give you all of you in such a proactive state. It has become the biggest driving force in life. In fact, when you become a parent, you go through a similar experience. When they become parents, they all say that raising children is very difficult, but in the end, most of them do it well. The reason is because I met the person I want to give my life to. Meeting the spouse I love is meeting the person I want to give everything to with my head, and if I meet my child with that beloved spouse, I think that it is meeting a relationship that I want to give everything to with my heart.